Dating, It's Just as Awkward Even With Today's Technology/ Generation

Remember when a male would open the door? Pay for the meal? Plan the evening? Remember when it was about: Do you make each other laugh? How about same morals and values? Do you both eventually would like a relationship that ends in marriage?

Now it's about how good are you in bed? Can I take that for a test drive before we go any further? What do you want sexually? Can I do "these______" things to you sexually? This is how I like being touch....

All on a first in person meeting! I thought that is what the technology is for, ask the questions or confess your desires to see if you can ever been that close to them in person before you even meet.

Just wow! Sure I'd get naked in a heart beat but at the same time, I DON'T KNOW YOU. I NEED to know if I will be more than just a Sperm Dumpster to you.

Sperm Dumpster... males get offended when you say it, but yet, that's most of their intentions. Are you pissed that I know?

Confusing People

I'm quite chatty at my job (inbound call center rep), which is always taken as friendly. But this last time, wow, things just clicked!

Hours after work, we spoke for over 2 hours with no dead silence. It was past midnight where he was, was a promise to call me the the following the day -and now it's the following day after that and still no word.

I don't get.....

July 2nd

After getting several repeated hang ups from the work phone of where I met this person, I called back, hoping (of course) that there was just an issue with a phone. When he realised it was me, he immediately hung up! A moment later, I emailed him asking him what I did wrong? A few hours later, he responded:

absolutely NOTHING wrong with you, i just cant give in to temptation, your a cool gal, but i got things to work out in my life 1st. sorry if i mislead you in any way, your good to talk to,


Most men say what they mean, but he just back in forth here..and I'm not ready to let go... yet...